2 Corinthians 1:3, 4

 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

It is so difficult to know what to do with the emotions, the pain, of losing a loved one.  Where do you put all the grief?